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Lloyd Irving ([personal profile] boredallready) wrote in [community profile] savetheearth2014-02-08 09:59 pm

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[Lloyd's been a bit sparse lately, but he's had a lot on his mind. A lot for him, at least. He doesn't look nearly as cheerful or as confident as he usual does.]

I have a weird question and I figured this would be the best place to ask it cause there are always lots of weird questions here.

I don't think any of you know my dad cause he doesn't have this number, but a lot of people think it's pretty obvious that he's not my "real" dad. We both thought my other dad was dead, but...now I dunno anymore. I think he's alive and that I've talked to him, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't know who I am.

Does...anybody know what you're supposed to do when that happens?
needsmorezippers: (Neku [Let's talk])

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[personal profile] needsmorezippers 2014-02-09 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
[....Yeah that is a weird question. But, true enough, this is the place to ask those.]

Is there a reason you can't just tell him?
needsmorezippers: (Neku [Let's talk])

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[personal profile] needsmorezippers 2014-02-09 02:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Do you know of a reason he wouldn't?

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sucrosity: (uniform | well that's a surprise!)

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[personal profile] sucrosity 2014-02-09 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure you decide who your 'real' dad is, not anyone else.

Is there some reason you can't tell the other guy that you think he's your biological dad, or whatever?
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[personal profile] sucrosity 2014-02-09 05:15 am (UTC)(link)
Ahhhhh. That's hard, since you can't really make someone wanna be involved with you.

Maybe you need to just... lay it out there? Let him think about it, and come to you when he's ready.
gogoghostpowers: (Phantom: fuuuuuck//please don't hurt me?)

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[personal profile] gogoghostpowers 2014-02-09 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
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WHAT'S HE SUPPOSED TO EVEN SAY TO THAT]


I...I think it depends. Uh.

Are you sure that that's what's going on?

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[personal profile] gogoghostpowers 2014-02-09 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
Yeeeeaaaaahhh...um.

[How does he have this conversation without completely spilling the beans?]

What--what do you want to do?

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[personal profile] destinedforrock 2014-02-09 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
[High-cruisin':] I~I~I... reeeally don't think I follow, dear, that might well depend on why of all things all this time you were lead to believe he was dead, now, might it not?

...That's if you want to - "connect" with him, in. Some capacity, of course.
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I don't think there are any set rules about it.

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shortspoken: (children also piss me off)

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[personal profile] shortspoken 2014-02-09 03:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Tell him. Or you'll always wonder.

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[personal profile] publicity 2014-02-09 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
idk this sounds like some kind of tv drama.

[A+ empathy there.]

you should just tell him what if he finds out some other way later???

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[personal profile] theboywiththebook 2014-02-10 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
[Even if this was a totally random stranger the subject of parents is involved. Henry thinks it's stupid to begin with. Two dad's instead of one? Sounds like a dream come true. So he's pretty blunt when he says it.]

You should just tell whoever it is what you know.

If you're not going to say anything to him what's the point of worrying?

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flamberge: (sagacity -- observing)

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[personal profile] flamberge 2014-02-10 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
[There is actually a lot he could say to this wow. Let's just start with the simplest first.]

You're adopted?

[Enjoy the complete cluelessness about who this post is regarding, Lloyd.]
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Uh, you might wanna mark for spoilers, that episode of Sugarcane Fields of Passion only aired like three days ago and some people might not have watched it yet.

[Including Chuck. In fact, this post looked so much like the episode description he'd read a few days ago, that he only got partway through before he stopped reading for fear of getting spoiled.]

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[personal profile] orangehoodie 2014-02-10 02:57 pm (UTC)(link)
i don't think there's anything specific you have to do. it's not like these things have rules to them. if you want to go tell him why don't you?

there might be a reason why he's never contacted you though like restraining orders or whatever so i might talk to someone else who might know what's going on first

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